Being single
364 days of the year has many benefits…independence, strong sense of self,
freedom of choice. But on day 365,
Valentine's Day, your strong, single self can have feelings of loneliness and disappointment
that cupid has not shot that arrow into your heart with an unexpected secret
admirer who is going to whisk you away on a romantic day of a fancy meal and
expensive gifts.
Retailers reap the benefits of this
"Hallmark Holiday" and according to the Greeting Card Association,
falls only behind Christmas as the holiday that sells the most greeting cards,
approximately 145 million. Many perceive
this holiday as one for lovers and young children who can't wait to exchange
all those special little messages, but that is really the not case. Valentine's is a perfect opportunity to reach
out to an old friend that you have lost contact with and perhaps schedule a
date to meet for lunch. This year, I purchased
silly little cards and plan to send along with a chocolate bar to special
clients that I have gotten to know over the years just to make them smile and
remind them that I am still around. When
you remove the marketing prospects from the day of love, what is a left is a
day dedicated to expressing affection and admiration for someone, whoever that
may be.
But the burning question is,
what do single's do on the actual holiday?
First remember, you are not the only single on the planet. Make a date with a friend and plan a late
lunch rather than fight the dinner crowds, followed by a matinee. Or, invite some single friends over for an
evening of wine, cheese and conversation.
And of course, there is nothing
weird about doing something special for yourself, perhaps a massage or
splurging on a new pair of shoes. The point is, this holiday is not intended to
create feelings of sadness or to be ignored by those who may feel left out, but
rather embraced as an opportunity to express appreciation for someone special
or for yourself.
Here is more insight on
Valentine's Day for Single.
Great tips!
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